WAYS TO ASK YOUR BOYFRIEND TO MARRY YOU

Are you wondering whether it’s okay to be the first one to propose marriage? In fact, in most relationships a woman initiates marriage talk. There are many men who are afraid of marriage, since it involves lots of practical aspects along with planning (both socially and financially), so they will bide their time even if they’re committed to the relationship. Check out a few ways to ask your boyfriend to marry you.

1. Ask him why he hasn’t asked you to marry him yet

First of all, ask your boyfriend why he hasn’t asked you to marry him yet. Make sure you get a specific answer to your question, since it may clarify his standpoint. If your guy tells you that he hasn’t considered possibility of marriage, then ask him if he’s committed to the relationship.

2. Don’t be so dramatic about it

Really, girls, the last thing you want to do is to go on your knees and ask him to marry you in a public place. It’s quite normal for men to do such things, but coming from you it will make your boyfriend go as red as a beet. It’s better to discuss this topic when you’re in a private place.

3. Don’t be too needy

If you display any form of neediness or dependence, your guy may find it repulsive subconsciously. The guys don’t like the needy and clingy girls. And you should stop the needy behavior before it ends your relationship. So try to play hard to get, but make sure you don’t overdo it.

4. Be playful when you ask him about marriage

It’s important to keep a playful attitude when you ask your boyfriend about marriage, even if you’re nervous or edgy about his reaction. You can say something like ‘When do I get to call you my husband?’ or ‘So Mr. (name) when are you planning to marry me?’

5. Let him know that you want to get married

Many men start thinking seriously about marriage when they see that the woman has made up her mind about it. So go ahead and tell your guy that you want to get married and settle down. Who knows? Maybe

6. Don’t pressure him too much

Ladies, if you want your boyfriend to run, keep pressuring him to get married. If you put emotional pressure on your man it might backfire later when he’ll blame you for problems in the marriage. Try to put some indirect pressure by telling him that your parents are looking forward to see you married as soon as possible.

7. Talk about the practical aspects

There are a few practical aspects of marriage to be considered that you may not have thought of. There are social issues, such as meeting with the families, and financial issues such as getting a house, a car and other necessities. Maybe your boyfriend worries about one of these issues. Don’t ignore the practical aspects of marriage, discuss it and help him feel comfortable about it.

Are you going to ask your boyfriend to marry you? How are you going to do this? Share your thoughts, please!

REASONS WHT YOU SHOULD NEVER JUDGE OTHER PEOPLE

We often judge people without realizing it. There are people who realize it and love it. My friend says that she enjoys judging other people because it helps her boost her self-esteem and feel better about herself. I know my friend is not the only one who loves to judge someone each day. Regardless of the reason, we don’t have a right to judge anyone. Most people don’t notice their own mistakes, instead they strive to find and point out someone else’s mistakes. Take a look at a few of the most important reasons why you should break a habit of judging other people.

1. Incomplete information

Before judging someone, make sure that you know all the facts about this person. Maybe you don´t know the whole story, you don’t know their problems and worries. It is very important to hold off until you know all facts. Instead of judging, try to help them or leave them alone. It’s one of the most obvious reasons why we shouldn’t judge other people.

2. We are all different

If you don’t like doing something, it doesn’t mean that other people should not do it too. For example, if you don’t like tattoos, you shouldn’t tell other person that their tattoos look horrible. If someone can’t get a diploma, it doesn’t mean that they don’t want to study, they just can’t pay for their education. We are all different and we all have different life problems. Instead of judging someone today, try to improve your own life.

3. No one is perfect

Perfectionists tend to judge every person they meet in their lives. They don’t admit their own mistakes but love to point out someone else’s flaws. It’s crucial to understand that no one is perfect and we all make mistakes every now and then. Before criticizing someone’s actions, make sure those actions are really bad. Maybe they have some reasons to do what they want to do.

4. Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you

Before judging someone, put yourself in his or her shoes. We often unfairly judge others, but hate it when people judge us. Remember the famous line, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”? There is true wisdom in it. Your words and actions can ruin any relationship in a matter of a few minutes, but you will never earn someone’s trust back and build a strong relationship in a matter of a few minutes. Think about it before judging others.

5. Tolerance

Tolerance is essential in a modern world. Nowadays people do so many crazy things that it’s hard to keep silent when needed. Cultivate tolerance on a daily basis and it will help you understand people better and judge less. If you can’t understand someone, then don’t dwell on him or her. Focus on your own problems instead.

6. Appearances are often deceptive

Don’t judge people by their appearance and never make fun of others. Maybe they can’t buy expensive clothes and lead a luxury lifestyle, but they may do many good deeds that other people don’t even think about. As I mentioned before, we are all different. Some people can’t afford to buy essential foods, while others spend a fortune on the things they don’t need. Rich people tend to judge poor people, but they don’t know the whole story and they don’t know how poor people help others without expecting anything in return.

7. Respect

If you want to grow as a person and become wiser, you should learn how to respect other people, including your enemies. In some countries, people can’t turn their enemies out of the house because they respect them. We judge our enemies and try to make their lives miserable, but often end up ruining our own lives.

8. You define yourself

When you judge other people, you don’t define them, you actually define yourself. Do you want people to think of you as someone who judge everyone? Ask your family or friend what they think about you, and if they say that you often judge other people, then it’s time to stop being judgmental.

There are many reasons why we shouldn’t judge other people. Many of us are guilty of it, but once you realize that judging others is one of your bad habits, you will know what to do. Do you think people have a right to judge others? Why do they do it? Share your thoughts with us.

TOP 10 COUNTRIES WITH THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN IN THE WORLD

Obviously every country has attractive and ugly women, but there are somewhere you'll find a bigger concentration of ladies who are either naturally beautiful or who like to take good care of themselves. Whether it's natural or "enhanced" beauty you're curious about, you'll find it in abundance in the countries listed below. Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but if you prefer blondes or brunettes, paler or tanned skin tones, these should be your top destinations: 1. BRAZIL Why are there so many Brazilian supermodels? Because they have the genes for it. Brazilians are probably the most ethnically mixed people in the world, so combining different shades and shapes creates the most perfect of bodies. And they work on them too, since they live at the beach in Rio or flaunt themselves at the trendiest bars in fashion-obsessed São Paulo. 2. RUSSIA After Brazil, Russia is probably the country with the most beautiful women per square mile. You'll find female eye candy on the Moscow subway, but also throughout the most remote corners of Siberia, where supermodel Irina Shayk was discovered. Female beauty is part of the Russian landscape. 3.SLOVAKIA Men who prefer tall blonde blue-eyed women automatically think Sweden, but the most gorgeous blondes are actually in Slovakia! Many women around the world spend fortunes to look like what comes naturally to Slovakian women, and these girls don't have to work very hard to draw your attention. 4.SWEDEN    Although Slovakians beat Swedes in the hottest blondes category, there's no denying that Swedish women do fit the stereotype of beautiful women. That's why they won the first two Miss World titles ever, and their beauty is not just on the outside. Talk to any woman in Stockholm and you'll find that they're also well educated and sophisticated. 5. VENEZUELA Venezuela has the most beauty pageant winners in the world (Miss World and Miss Universe) and that's because beauty is the country's biggest obsession. When not blessed by nature, women are sculpted by surgery, a major local industry. Female beauty is said to be the biggest source of national pride and even national identity, so that explains why they're the women who spend the largest portion of their income on beauty. And while the capital Caracas is an unattractive city, that's easily overlooked when eyes concentrate solely on the young women on the streets. 6. COLOMBIA They don't all look like Sofia Vergara but many do come close. Colombian women are proud of their curves and work hard to show them off. They're also highly seductive (and often irresistible), so if you don't want to fall into temptation, try to contain yourself if you ever go on a trip to Bogota. 7.UKRAINE Why do so many men around the world look for Ukrainian brides? The reasons are well known and discussed, but above all, it's because well-dressed women who take care of their bodies while keeping a seductive charm is quite attractive. Walk around Kiev and you'll see why they get so much attention. 8. LEBANON Most people will agree that Lebanon has the most beautiful women in the Middle East and Arab world. And everyone really noticed that through a controversial 2006 photo of affluent Lebanese women riding through a war-torn neighborhood in Beirut. It showed that the young sun-tanned women of this country are strong and keep the glamour no matter what. A visit to the Lebanese capital will surprise for the vibrant and fun-loving attitude of its people. 9. ANGOLA    The most beautiful African women are from Angola. The country is one of only two sub-Saharan nations to have a black Miss Universe winner, and its models are now showing up on the international runways (like Sharam Diniz who's one of Victoria Secret's angels).  Because of that international success, young girls in Luanda constantly compete in local pageants and for the attention of model agencies, and it's in the capital that you'll see the African beauties getting male attention, at the recent trendy (and expensive!) bars and restaurants. 10. USA The USA has a reputation as the most obese nation in the world, and in such a diverse country there really isn't a particular type of woman. But America is also obsessed with weight loss and beauty-enhancement products and procedures, and some cities do stand out for their ratio of hot women. Natural or naturally fake, the bodies you often see in Miami and Los Angeles are flawless, and women make sure they flaunt them.

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SECRETS WOMEN NEVER TELL THEIR MEN

Women are known to be very open and extremely talkative creatures in comparison with men. But you'll get surprised that not only men have some things to hide, but women also have some secrets. There is a mystery in every woman for a man to clear up. But unfortunately, only a few of them succeed. Though it is not that complicated to understand a woman, men have great difficulties with it. So here are some women's secrets which I hope will help you to clear up the situation.

1. They want men to take initiative

 

It is a very important thing. they do not like to take care, to plan and to do all sorts of things by themselves. They want men to take initiative. Though, they never tell about it, you should know that it is important that you carry out some difficult tasks or surprise them. When a man takes initiative it means that he is involved, that he is attentive and caring. Do it more often, no matter what kind of thing it is; List of stuff to buy, or prepare dinner, or plan your next holiday.

2. They want to be surprised more often

 

All women go crazy with surprises, so they secretly dream about their partner to show his creativity and to astonish them as frequently as possible. Even a small unexpected sweet trifle will make a woman feel special and loved. It shouldn’t be an expensive gift, simply showing your initiative, concern and deep affection are priceless. It is not difficult, just be open and careful to your lady. When she realizes the fact that some effort has been taken to make her feel happy, you will be soon rewarded.

3. They are afraid that another women attract him more

 

It is a hidden fear among most women that other women in their man's life, coworkers or female friends, may attract him more. The reason for it is quite simple, they all want to have something that they can't have. So women are afraid that their man's heart may be stolen or he will start fantasizing about another woman. There is nothing worse for a woman than that.

4. They want men to be sincere

 

Every person wants his\her partner to be always open and sincere no matter what. Nobody likes being fooled. And, of course, women are no exception. They can forgive a lot of things but not lies. Irrespective of the situation or how bad your fault is, a woman will always hear you out and even help you to solve the problem.

5. They notice and understand body language

 

Women are known to have a sixth sense, especially if it concerns relationships. They always notice and analyze all small details in another person, and that includes body language of their partners. So they usually are aware of his sympathy to a colleague, which they have never met. Once they notice something suspicious, it starts bothering them, though they may not be even aware of what exactly annoys them. And if a woman suspects something, she will be very upset when her man doesn't spend time with her but stays in the office.

6. They agree with “Guy Time”

 

That is another secret that only a few men know about. A lot of women actually agree with “guy time”. They understand perfectly well that their husbands, boyfriends need some space for themselves, and that it is very important for them to spend some time with friends, watching football matches, drinking beer or playing various kinds of games. The only problem here may be when a woman feels lack of attention, while a man focuses only on spending time with friends.

7. They want their friends to like them

No woman will say this out loud. But it is so. His friends are very important for their men, so they want them to like them. This means that they want to show how they love their partner and what a beautiful person he is. Such tendency also helps to avoid unnecessary conflicts and arguments if they don't like the friends or vice versa. Another reason for that is that his friends' sympathy for you will influence your partner's decisions in various ways, which is, of course, to their advantage.

8. They need space

If a woman tells that she needs space, it doesn’t mean that she doesn’t want to see you so don’t get in your car and drive away for hours. She just wants understanding. Your girlfriend or wife wants you to know that she has important things to do and you need to assume that she really means what she says.

9. They want them to be honest

 

  Every woman wants her man to be honest. So if your woman looks fat in that dress, don’t say “You look gorgeous.” Women always know how they look. Don’t be afraid to tell her that she’s put on several pounds, but still she looks amazing. Show your woman that you love her for who she is. You may even suggest her to exercise together. She will definitely appreciate your honest opinion.

10 MOST COMMON BEAUTY MISTAKES MEN NOTICE

Join a group of women for a night on the town, and you’ll hear them whispering about the guys with the obvious comb-overs and gaudy gold necklaces, or the ones chomping on gum so vigorously it’s a wonder their jaws don’t dislocate. But did you ever think about what it looks like from their perspective? Here are ten beauty mistakes that turn men off fast. Avoid making these common mistakes with your makeup that you may think is fantastic but makes men want to run the other direction and forget about you.

1. Too much perfume

Perfume is supposed to make a man want to snuggle in closer. If he can’t get within two feet without his eyes watering, you’re using too much. Plus, men like to think your perfume is for them only; it spoils the effect when they have to share it with everyone in the room. Don’t douse yourself with the fragrance. Just because you can’t sense your fragrance doesn’t mean others can’t. Try to spritz yourself sparingly (3-4 sprays will be enough) and spritz behind each ear, on your wrists, and behind both knees.

2. Crimes against foundation

Foundation is supposed to even out your skin tone, creating a more flawless look than is usually bestowed by nature alone. If your foundation draws attention to itself, you’re using it wrong. Some of the worst offenses are using too much (the dreaded cakey look), using the wrong color, or failing to blend it at your jawline. To avoid foundation faux pas, get help choosing the right color, then blend, blend, blend.

3. Glittery eye shadow

Glittery eye shadow clings to every crease. That may be fine if you’re in your teens, but after that, it’s time to switch to matte. It doesn’t make much sense to spend money on creams to fight wrinkles only to draw attention to them with glittery eye shadow. If you decide to wear a smokey eye, avoid using glittery eye shadow and make sure you don’t use too much eye shadow, mascara and liner, or your man will definitely notice this beauty mistake. 

4. Mascara clumps

Men think long lashes are sexy, but long lashes gummed up with clumps of mascara are another matter. So are black smudges under your eyes where your mascara has rubbed off on your skin. Apply mascara sparingly, and use the brush to get rid of any clumps. Experiment with different formulas to find one that doesn’t rub off on your skin. If your your mascara smudges during the day, opt for a waterproof version. It won’t run or smudge even if your eye area gets oily.

5. Sloppy shaving

While some feminists may rail against a culture that expects women to shave, the truth is that no man wants to reach over and caress a prickly leg…or see fuzzy armpits. There’s no point in spending time on makeup and hair if your legs scream, “Keep away!” Like it or not, men prefer smooth legs. This is one of the most common mistakes men notice even if it’s a first date. 

6. Dry Skin

Dry skin is almost as bad as prickly skin; it’s not touchable. Scaly elbows and cracked heels just aren’t inviting. Make moisturizer part of your everyday beauty routine, no matter what. And you shouldn’t do it only for men; you should do it for yourself first. You need to care for your skin daily to look younger longer. If you have a super dry skin, opt for a coconut or olive oil, and use homemade masks regularly. Dry skin is never fun, so make sure you care for it properly.

7. Poor oral hygiene

Bad breath and yellow teeth don’t exactly make men want to come in for a kiss. And if you have the evidence of your last meal stuck in your teeth, forget it. If your teeth are stained, look into some of the many whitening options are available. Practice regular brushing to make sure your breath is fresh and your teeth are free of food. And if you smoke or drink lots of coffee, carry some breath mints with you.

8. Loser lips

Think about how gross it is to see a man with food stuck in his mustache. Well, men think it’s equally icky to see crumbs embedded in sticky lip-gloss. No man wants to put his lips on something that looks like thick, sparkly glue. Stay away from the lacquer-like glosses and opt instead for sheer, natural-looking color with a built-in moisturizer. Another lipstick fail is dark liner. A liner in the same shade as your lipstick is fine; it keeps your lipstick from bleeding into your foundation. But when you wear a dark liner and your lipstick wears off, your mouth ends up looking like something from a kid’s coloring book. The purpose of lip liner isn’t to inspire the man sitting across the table to grab a crayon.

9. Untouchable hair

Men like natural-looking hair. Up-dos are elegant, but stay away from the ones that are so intricate it looks like one stray breeze could make the whole thing fall apart. Consider having a simple yet beautiful hairstyle, especially if you have very little time on your hand. And don’t use too many styling products; men want to be able to touch your hair without having to wash their hands afterward. Most men like soft, touchable hairstyles that are not too styled or perfect.

10. Public grooming

Unfair though it may be, men like to think women are effortlessly beautiful. Don’t ruin their illusion with public grooming. A subtle lipstick touch-up after dinner is fine, but save hair brushing, perfume spritzing, and any major makeup repair for the ladies room. As far as trimming or filing your nails…well, just save that for home. Try to spend more time talking to him instead of worrying about your makeup.