The way you dress, groom, walk and
overall act reflects who you are to people. Maybe you are having a hard time
making new friends or putting yourself out there in the social scene in a cool
way. Just read this and change your life into a much better and funnier one.
Be
hygienic.
People like to be near people who are clean and that smell
good. So brush your teeth twice a day, take a shower everyday or as many times
as it's healthy in the climate of where you live, and always use deodorant and
a cologne or perfume.
Bring
joy to your dressing style. What type of message are you sending
to people through the way you dress? You like wearing plain clothes, larger
clothes or plain colors? Well, try to dress more joyful, then. People are more
drawn to people that look like they have joy in their lives. You do not have to
change completely, but try to improve a few things.
§ Brighter
colors. Instead of going for pales, beiges, dark or grayish tones,
go for baby blues, pastel greens, pinks or any color that transmits happiness.
§ Get
updated in fashion. Make a research on the internet,
Google about what types of shoes, jeans, shirts and accessories are fashionable
right now. There are thousands of websites and blogs out there that can help
you.
§ Do
not try too hard. You do not have to wear everything
that they say it's fashionable, but do take note of what would look
better for your body type, skin color and personal taste. People look much
cooler when they dress in style yet look like it's effortless
Get
a more flattering look. Go on Google and search for what types
of haircuts and hairstyles are in right now for your face shape and go for what
suits better your personal taste. Once again, you must not look like you've
been trying too hard. A subtle look is the best. If you want to wear makeup,
you can go on YouTube and search for makeup tutorials.
Improve
your attitude. Do not slouch! It's not only bad for
your back, but it's also bad for how people perceive you. Stand up straight,
swing your arms a little as you walk and always look people at their face and
make eye contact. This shows people you aren't afraid of life and they will
instantly respect you much more.
Speak
to someone new everyday. Go up to someone you do not know or
that you barely talk, and ask anything.
"What time is it? I want to know if the time on my cell phone/watch is
right", for example. Then, you can smile and say thanks. You can also take
the chance to pay a compliment on the person, like "By the way, that shirt
looks cool on you". Try doing it to a different person everyday, people
will feel more familiar to you when they see you next time after this, which
can lead to more interaction and then friendships.
Go
to different places. Get out of the house, simple as that.
Get dressed your best, put on your improved attitude and go take a walk and eat
something nice at the mall, or take a walk somewhere that's crowded. In these
places you can practice speaking to new people, like asking them about
anything. It's a great way to show people how cool you are and also practice
your communication skills.
Read
and learn about the news in as many areas possibles.
Read about celebrities news and also politics news, learn what's happening in
the world and in entertainment. The more you know about popular culture, the
more subjects you will have and more things you will have to ask people in
order to strike a conversation.
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